That Time Andrew Faked Tears After Getting Dumped by Nancy

The third season of “Love Is Blind” was released on Netflix in October 2022. It showed us Nancy Rodriguez shutting down Andrew Liu’s proposal. Oddly enough, he did not care about the cameras rolling during his confessional as he pulled out eyedrops and put them in his eyes.

The WTF moment, which included some sniffling on his end, simulated actual tears. After using the eyedrops, Andrew said he never thought he could care for somebody enough to bring him to tears. Once the season started, the women cast members would call him a “clout chaser” and “trash” for the fabricated moment.

Raven Doing Her Exercise While Bartise Was Being Emotional

Bartise Bowden was put in an awkward situation when he emotionally confessed to his pod partner Raven Ross about his parents’ marriage difficulties. While he spoke, she was on the other side of the wall, doing a vigorous workout with reverse push-ups, cat-cow stretches, and jumping jacks.

Bartise reflected that he never imagined feeling comfortable enough to share that story and can’t believe he just did. The scene went viral after it aired, and Raven later apologized publicly, telling E! News she was sorry to Bartise. His confession was unexpected but a testament to the established trust and connection between the two.

Bartise Telling Nancy That He Liked Raven More

We saw Bartise propose to Nancy in “Love Is Blind” season 3, and it seemed like all was going great in paradise. That was until he saw Raven’s looks behind the pod wall during a cocktail party. Bartise then confessed to Nancy that Raven is “the typical girl” he often dated outside the show.

Bartise said that when Raven came down wearing her tight clothing during the episode, he couldn’t help but see her as the ultimate smoke show. Once seven of that season’s episodes had aired, Bartise created a TikTok acknowledging that he made a “mess” on the dating reality TV series.

Shake Trying to Figure Out Women’s Weights

Abhishek “Shake” Chatterjee volunteered for a blind dating experiment but tried to uncover details about women’s physical looks, specifically their weights. In the pod portion, he had leading questions for the female cast members, telling Hope Antoniello Foley that he gets along well with people who exercise. He also asked Deepti Vempati if he could lift her at a music festival.

Though Shake eventually expressed shame over his questions, he retracted the statement at the reunion, saying that we all have physical preferences. He would also articulate that Deepti was like his “aunt,” which she would quickly shut down at their wedding vows.

Shake Confessing His Attraction For Vanessa

Shake’s reunion performance was cringe, and one incredibly awkward moment happened while he defended his lack of attraction to ex-fiancée Deepti—and his interest in somebody who wasn’t even a cast member. He was talking about Vanessa Lachey, which led to sounds of repulsion from his castmates. That’s when he said he wished he wasn’t, pointing out that it’s not a choice since we’re all animals.

In retort, Vanessa’s spouse and co-presenter Nick Lachey cited Shake’s veterinary profession. He fired back by saying that he treated animals and that there was a big difference. Nick added that he now saw why Shake didn’t treat humans. Yikes!

Shayne Mistaking Natalie for Shaina

During his period in the pods, Shayne Jansen couldn’t choose between two girls: Natalie Lee and Shaina Hurley. But an exceptionally uncomfortable moment came when he mistook Natalie’s voice as Shaina’s, saying, “Shaina. That’s who I was hoping for. What are you wearing over there?”

The blunder ultimately upset Natalie, while Shayne got wary and fled the room. The latter even said that if that minor hiccup was that big of a deal and that changed everything, then perhaps their connection wasn’t what they thought it was. Ultimately, the pair made it to the altar, but Natalie couldn’t say, “I do.”

Shaina Professing Her Feelings to Shayne When She Already Accepted Kyle’s Proposal

After she accepted the proposal from Kyle Abrams, Shaina made a last-ditch attempt to win Shayne over. In an unforeseen turn of events, she met with Shayne to tell him she had deep feelings for him. Shayne ended up turning her down, stating that they “wasted time” breaking things off. Shaina then confronted Natalie and Shayne at a bonfire, labeling their relationship fake.

Shayne and Natalie got engaged during “Love Is Blind” season 2. The two appeared to be one of the strongest pairs in that season, with a lock to go through with it and get hitched in the season finale.

Giannina Telling Damian He’s Not the “Best S*x” of Her Life

Giannina Gibelli and Damian Powers had been engaged and were in a heated argument when the former made a shocking revelation. She told Damian that she hadn’t been enjoying their intimate moments, despite his claims of it being the best of his life. Giannina had remained silent, not wanting to hurt his feelings, but with her back to him, she then spoke the truth.

Their story in the ten-episode first season came to an end with Giannina saying, “I do,” while Damian said, “I don’t.” They parted ways but rekindled their romance after filming the show, which was shot in late 2018.

Jessica Letting Her Doggo Sip Her Wine

No one can forget the infamous scene involving Jessica Batten’s dog and a glass of wine. Fans were left in shock after seeing Jessica let her beloved pup take a sip of her red wine during a conversation with her then-fiancé Mark Cuevas, who remarked, “She loves wine.”

Clearly, the moment had deeply affected Jessica and left her feeling uncomfortable. In February 2020, she commented to Entertainment Weekly that she definitely has never done that before and won’t do it again. She also went on to disclose that she loved her dog and would never tell anyone to do what she did.

The Love Triangle Between Jessica, Barnett, And Amber

“Love Is Blind” season 1, back when it was filmed in 2018, saw Matt Barnett with the hard decision to choose between Jessica Batten and now-wife Amber Pike. While he ultimately went with Amber, Jessica could not overlook her feelings. And that’s even when she was already engaged to now-ex Mark Cuevas.

According to Today, the couple is still together, despite continuing to be involved with drama during the “After the Altar” special. Amber has reportedly even changed her surname to Barnett. She and Matt marked their third wedding anniversary with a cute video posted on Instagram in November 2022.

Diamond Tosses Ring Given By Carlton

“Love Is Blind” is a Netflix reality dating show that dares 30 men and women to fall in love with their dates before seeing them. And as for Carlton Morton and Diamond Jack, they got engaged after only ten days of “pod’ speed dates in season 1.

Sadly, the drama escalated while the two were in Mexico on vacation. That’s when Carlton disclosed that he has dated both men and women. Diamond got upset and tossed her engagement ring into the hotel pool. Ultimately, they decided to part ways. In 2020, she told People her regrets, saying she had questions because she’s never been with a bi man.

Giannina Embodying The Runaway Bride

Here are more details on what happened at Damian and Giannina’s wedding during the finale of the Netflix reality dating experiment that fascinated Twitter. Damian’s lamentable decision to ditch Giannina at the altar instigated a major showdown between the two.

As soon as Damian said “no” that day, Giannina channeled her inner “Runaway Bride” and darted out of the chapel. However, she plunged into a giant mud puddle. After returning inside and confronting her ex, she yanked off a fragment of her wedding gown to tie around his wrist, mirroring the bowtie he handed her during his proposal.

Continuing The Drama Between Damian And Giannina

We’ve already told you that Damian and Giannina rekindled their romance after the season 1 finale. However, their relationship took a turn in August 2020 after Damian was seen with Francesca Farago from “Too Hot to Handle,” another reality TV Netflix offering. They were seen walking arm in arm through downtown West Hollywood.

Damian then went to the “Love Is Blind: After the Altar” special, which aired in July 2021, where he brought the Canadian model as his date. His actions led to a heated argument at the party between him and Giannina, which ended in the two calling it quits for good.

Shaina And Kyle Going Their Separate Ways

Despite her concerns over their opposing religious beliefs, Shaina agreed to Kyle’s proposal. She’s a devout Christian; he’s an atheist. However, their romance soon fizzled out. There were rumors they had reunited off-camera after “Love Is Blind” season 2 wrapped up. But as per Kyle’s exclusive statement with Us in February 2022, they’re not even in communication and are not friends either.

In July 2022, hairstylist Shaina wedded Christos Lardakis at a Chicago courthouse. Her husband has a daughter from a prior relationship. Meanwhile, glazier and construction worker Kyle had gone Instagram official with Tania Leanos, his girlfriend, by November of that same year.

Jarrette Caught Between Mallory And Iyanna

During his time in the season 2 pods, Jarrette Jones found himself choosing between Iyanna McNeely and Mallory Zapata. And after he got turned down by the latter, he proceeded to propose to the program coordinator.

Before saying their vows, Iyanna was already questioning if she was Jarrette’s top choice throughout the experiment. After a year of marriage, they ended their romance. Due to Jarrette’s initial chemistry with Mallory, fans have felt their union did not stand a chance. And according to the self-defined sneaker dealer, podcast presenter, investor, and barber, Iyanna had a hard time ignoring social media users’ opinions.

Shaina Continuously Stirring the Pot

Shaina knew Shayne was already engaged to Natalie. However, that didn’t stop her from letting him know about her feelings. Nonetheless, the real estate agent stayed dedicated to his then-partner.

In February 2022, Shayne opened up about where he and Natalie stood on Instagram. He wanted to clarify some rumors, saying that he and Shaina are cordial and have spent time in group gatherings with the cast members, including Natalie. However, they’ve never had nor will ever have a romantic relationship. This came after fans of the show witnessed his engagement end. Shayne also added that he wished his ex all the best.

Shake And Shayne’s Social Media Tension

When Kyle shared a teaser from the season 2 reunion on Instagram in February 2022, he said in his caption that he was enjoying the train wreck. The post came with a  still where Abhishek “Shake” Chatterjee and Shayne seemed to get heated.

Shake, shortly engaged to Deepti on the series, blasted Kyle through an Instagram comment, warning his co-star that he’s keeping it real at the reunion. The vet even asserted that Kyle was a “serial cheater” on his Instagram Story. In it, he wrote that he hoped Kyle’s six-pack would make up for his lack of loyalty. Kyle didn’t respond when Us Magazine reached out for comment.

Remember That Jeremy Hartwell Lawsuit?

In July 2022, the season 2 alum Jeremy Hartwell filed a lawsuit against Netflix, making allegations about how the cast members were treated on the show. He accused the producers of underpaying cast members and depriving them of water, food, and sleep.

Jeremy asserted in court documents acquired by Us at the time that the program’s conditions contributed to inhumane working conditions and altered the mental state of the cast. Apparently, the mix of sleep deprivation, seclusion, lack of nourishment, and a surplus of alcohol were all required, enabled, or encouraged by production. Netflix didn’t instantly give remarks on the allegations.

Nancy’s Tale of Two Proposals

In season 3, Nancy was torn between her feelings for Bartise and Andrew. But after struggling to make up her mind during the experiment, the speech pathologist ended up choosing Bartise. And that’s despite her worries concerning their five-year age difference.

Before Nancy made her decision, though, that’s when Andrew tried to pop the question. We already know where this is going because that’s when she rejected his advances, and he went off to do the cringe eyedrop confessional. Nancy and Bartise’s relationship never succeeded, though, and as she confirmed with StyleCaster in February 2023, they are still not friends.

Cole Looking For the Perfect Match

Cole Barnett (unrelated to season 1’s Matt Barnett) was another cast member caught in a love triangle in season 3. The Texas native developed feelings for flight attendant Zanab Jaffrey and ballet dancer Colleen Reed. Cole eventually ditched Colleen for not initiating deep topics in the pod before stating in a confessional that they’d have hot babies but be financially poor.

While Cole appeared glad to propose to Zanab and see her in person, things pivoted on their Malibu vacation. He told his fellow male “Love Is Blind” co-stars that he was not drawn to her passive-aggressive nature regarding her nitpicking their mutual living arrangements.

More About Bartise’s Smoke Show Comment

Bartise was equally torn between Nancy and Raven in the pods. After choosing to get engaged to Nancy, feelings were questioned on the group’s California vacation. By then, Raven, a Pilates instructor, moved on with Sikiru “SK” Alagbada.

Bartise was brave enough to admit to Nancy that he loved seeing Raven for the first time, and that’s when the smoke show comment emerged. The businessman ended u marrying Nancy, but she was quick to end their relationship. After these two went their separate ways after their wedding, they maintained their friendship, which also ended during “Love Is Blind: After The Altar.”

Cole Asking To Trade Fiancées

After their in-person meeting, Cole told Colleen that he found her appealing and that she was the type of person he would pursue in the real world. This confession led Zanab, Cole’s fiancée, to feel insecure that he was attracted to someone else. Colleen then told her fiancé Matt Bolton about the conversation, saying she had found Cole cute but was devoted to her engagement.

Matt and Zanab became distraught about the situation, and the two began commiserating. Cole was displeased that Zanab was siding with Matt instead of him and suggested that they should switch fiancées. What a headache!

Matt Was Ready To Leave

Colleen had an unexpected revelation that shook Matt to his core—she was physically attracted to Cole. This was too much to handle, so he stormed off, proclaiming their relationship was finished. However, the couple made amends the following day, and their relationship was back on track.

Unfortunately for Matt, this wasn’t the only time he was tested in their relationship. Again, he was furious when Colleen went out partying until 2 a.m. instead of spending time with him. He vented to Bartise and started packing his bags, convinced their relationship was over. Thankfully, the couple worked through this issue and remained together.

Cole Rating Colleen And Zanab

Cole rated Zanab “9 out of 10” and Colleen “10 out of 10.” This caused a lot of controversies, and Cole later spoke out about it. He told Us in November 2022 that the situation was “ridiculous.” The real estate agent felt that rating people like that was wrong and was sorry for how it came across.

Cole said that he didn’t understand why it had come across that way, and he was out of character. Later, the flight attendant Zanab declined his proposal at the altar. This was a difficult situation for Cole, and he felt embarrassed and regretful for his actions.

Blindsided Right At The Altar

Bartise and Nancy clearly had a tumultuous relationship after the season 3 finale. In November 2022, the real estate investor spoke to Us about the experience. She expressed her need for time to heal from a broken heart and to process the situation. She also shared that although she and Bartise keep their interactions surface-level, there is no going back from his decision to say “No” when she said “Yes” at the altar.

Despite her initial shock, Nancy maintained respect for him and was able to move on from the situation. She said their relationship was “black and white,” clarifying that there was no way to make amends in the way she wished.

Cole And His Body-Shaming Comments

On the day she was meant to marry her fiancé, Cole, Zaneb called off the wedding and revealed how his body-shaming remarks had driven her to do so. She said that his comments included asking her why she was eating, trying to make her order salads, and criticizing her appearance. This was not shown in the series, a “saving grace” for Cole.

Cole denied one of the remarks regarding Zaneb eating two clementines. However, Alexa, Colleen, and Raven all backed her side. Zaneb’s claims have highlighted the issue of body shaming and the need to be aware of the impact of such comments.

Season 4’s Intertwined Love Triangles

Love Is Blind’s fourth season premiered in March 2023, bringing viewers an intricate web of love triangles. Much to his confusion, Kwame Appiah’s heart was pulled in two directions as he was drawn to Micah Lussier and Chelsea Griffin.

Meanwhile, Micah had her own romantic entanglement to deal with. She was also interested in Paul Peden, who seemed to have caught the eye of flight attendant Amber Wilder. Micah and Paul are one of four Love Is Blind season 4 couples who made it to the finale and had the chance to get married; however, they were also the only couple who didn’t tie the knot.

Zack and Irina’s Failed Engagement

Zack Goytowski was in a difficult situation during season 4 as he had strong feelings for Irina Solomonova and Bliss Poureetezadi. After much deliberation, he chose to end his relationship with Bliss and proposed to Irina.

However, when they met in person, Irina saw that Zack’s personality differed from the one she had known over the pod. She also noticed that he wasn’t wearing the engagement ring on the correct finger. Irina wanted to take things slow, so they decided not to kiss or be intimate. Eventually, they ended their engagement before heading to Mexico for the cast getaway, which Irina later told Us Weekly about.

Colleen Being More Than A Ballet Dancer

Colleen Reed has been a popular topic of conversation in the first few “Love Is Blind” season 3 episodes, with viewers wondering what she does for a living. Although she was quick to tell people she was a ballet dancer, her professional LinkedIn profile tells a different story.

Colleen is a Senior Digital PR Strategist for Fractl, a growth marketing agency, and has worked there for almost three years. However, it turns out that she isn’t just a PR strategist; she’s still pursuing her passion for ballet. Colleen has multiple jobs and is determined to make the most of her career.

Alexa Opening Up About Her Weight

“Love Is Blind” has not been very accepting of bodily diversity, as demonstrated by Vanessa Lachey’s remarks this past summer. This makes it even more disappointing to witness the show’s decision to use Alexa’s weight as her introduction. It conveys that her body is more important than her other qualities.

If Alexa wanted to talk about her weight, that would be fantastic, but why did she justify her body before the other contestants? It felt like her body was being objectified, which is not okay. This is a significant issue that the Netflix series should address and work to correct.

Danielle’s Brother Asking Nick About Intimate Matters

Attending family meetings on dating shows have always been a favorite of mine. It is the only time when we can catch a glimpse of reality. Parents, remember to remain calm and rational about your child’s decisions! Season 2, in particular, had a memorable family meeting.

Danielle’s brother asked Nick, the fiancé, how often they were intimate. It was a tricky question that had no proper answer. Although it was uncomfortable, it showed that her family was open and honest, which is not often seen on the show. It also provided a funny and wholesome moment that was much needed.

Irina Telling Zack He Looks Like A Cartoon

Irina finally revealed to Zack what cartoon character she thought he resembled. Despite their strong emotional connection after getting to know each other in the pods, Irina felt a bit of “ick” from the moment they saw each other.

When questioned by Decider, Irina described Zack as having just a little bit of Willy Wonka vibes. Although not a cartoon character, the fictional character in British author Roald Dahl’s 1964 children’s novel is undoubtedly cartoonish. Irina was taken aback by Zack’s lack of blinking and poker face. Regardless, it seems these two were never meant to be in a relationship anyway.

Bliss’s Father Telling Zack It’s Not Going To Work

On the show, the parents of Bliss and Zack had an extraordinary encounter. Bliss’s father bluntly informed Zack that their relationship would not be successful. This was not solely due to the fact that he was a protective parent, but rather, Zack had initially chosen Irina over Bliss.

Zack wanted to be cherished; however, Bliss’s dad made it clear that this was not the ideal place for a marriage to start from. Understandably, he had these feelings, but it is important to note that Bliss’s father was right in his warning. Still, Zack and Bliss became one of three couples who married during the season 4 finale.

Raven and SK Revealing Their Engagement

We are at fault for believing a reality show could have real love stories, but this outcome has wounded us. My favorite sensible duo had done the rational thing, testing their relationship to ensure it could go far before taking the plunge.

All the hard work and development finally paid off when the episode ended with a romantic proposal, and the two discussed the logistics of living together. But then, the scene suddenly changed to Raven sitting alone on a couch. Why are we suffering after finding a couple we could cheer on? Why must we be chastised just for believing that love can bring comfort?

Jackie Ditching Her Wedding Gown Fitting For A Date with Josh

Jackie and Marshall are two people who just don’t fit. In a very unexpected way, Marshall learns that his relationship with Jackie has ended when Brett arrives to tell him she didn’t appear at the bridal dress fitting. We then see Jackie on a date with Josh, a guy who was so drunk while professing his love to her at a party that he could barely speak in complete sentences.

Marshall and Jackie deserve better than this. They both deserve to be with someone who truly appreciates and adores them—someone who can provide the love and support any great relationship should have.

SK’s Mom Mouthing “I Do”

Raven and SK from “Love Is Blind” were one of the couples that I truly believed would last. At the altar, Raven joyfully said yes—but then SK froze. His loving mother, who had welcomed Raven into the family, mouthed “I do” as if SK had forgotten the words.

This moment was absolutely heart-rending for me. It was like his mother was willing her son to get it right, like the Lost Boys in “Peter Pan.” They believed in Tinkerbell with all their might so she would not perish. Unfortunately, Raven said she discovered SK was unfaithful to her through TikTok.

Kwame and Chelsea In One Of Their Worst Arguments

Kwame and Chelsea had a good relationship, particularly since their return from Mexico. Despite this, Chelsea became agitated just before her father Charles’ visit, doubting whether he would accept her relationship with Kwame. She was unconvinced by anything he tried to say, leaving him feeling apprehensive when the doorbell rang.

In hindsight, the worry was unjustified; Charles was a kind man who only wanted the best for Chelsea and Kwame. They soon realized this, putting the episode behind them and focusing on the present. These lovebirds ultimately became the first tandem to reach the altar. The start of their nuptials is shown in Episode 11.

Cole and Zanab’s Awkward Silent Quarrel

I have seen it before; the couple whose interactions are so skin-crawlingly tense that everyone else feels mildly uncomfortable. Such is the case between Cole and Zanab. The “good vs. great” argument, Cole’s comment about her figure, and seemingly irrelevant questions about her favorite big cat are just a few examples.

Despite the tension, they put on a smile for social appearances. Will they continue to drive each other crazy for years to come? It’s hard to tell. All we know is that their confrontations are far from pleasant. It’s a never-ending cycle of uncomfortable interactions, and we dread the moments when they’re in the same room.

Raven Feeling Irritated By SK Napping

Raven and SK’s interactions are mostly drawn out and uncomfortable. They often got on each other’s nerves. Even the latter’s mere nap had made the former irritable! No wonder things never worked out between these two. Here’s more information about their split.

On November 2022, news of the breakup between Raven and SK was announced on Instagram. This was after a woman released a TikTok video where she accused SK of cheating. She mentioned he had gone on a romantic trip to Cabo with her and lied about his relationship status. In response, Raven and SK released a joint statement confirming their break up, asking for privacy during the difficult time.

Matt Making Fun Of Diamond’s Name

Diamond’s popularity amongst “Love Is Blind” fans was so great that they invited her to the post-finale reunion episode. There, Jack and her former fiancé Carlton were able to rekindle their friendship after the intense argument which ended their engagement.

The former Atlanta Hawks basketball team dancer was a source of great entertainment for viewers. During her first date with Matt, Diamond showed her feisty side after being questioned about her name. In a no-nonsense manner, she said, “My name is Diamond. That’s my real name. I heard it in your voice… you were, like, questioning it.” Chuckling, Barnett replied, “So, which strip club do you work at?” That’s when she told him she was docking five points from his score.

Tiffany Falling Asleep While Brett Was Confessing

Tiffany Pennywell was a woman who had seemingly achieved a lot in life. But, the one thing she was yet to find was her soulmate. To find the last missing piece of her puzzle, she decided to give the famous show “Love Is Blind” a try. However, seeing her doze off on the couch was somewhat disheartening when Brett Brown confessed his strong feelings for her.

Fortunately, the two could forgive each other and became the first to get engaged on the show. According to Glamour, Tiffany, and Brett verified that they’re still together and living in Portland during the live reunion.

Irina And Micah Laughing At Amber’s Heartbreak

In season 4, Amber and Paul’s breakup was as dramatic as it could get, as Paul chose to pursue a relationship with Micah instead. Unfortunately, due to the women’s living arrangements, Micah witnessed Amber crying. Instead of exhibiting empathy, she asked her friend Irina to eavesdrop on Amber as she talked to another woman about the breakup.

This scene was unsettling and resembled a scene out of “Mean Girls.” The audience was likely disturbed to see Micah’s lack of sympathy, and they were likely shouting at the screen in frustration. It was an awkward moment that no one wanted to watch.

Chelsea Introducing Kwame To Her Baby Blanket

Kwame Appiah and Chelsea Griffin had a complicated relationship in the pods. But when they saw each other in person, their chemistry was undeniable. It is pretty strange that Chelsea, in her 30s, still sleeps with her baby blanket, Baba. However, Kwame was accepting and welcomed Baba into their bed without hesitation.

It is clear that they have a connection that goes beyond the typical love triangle drama. The two have enough respect and admiration for one another to make their relationship work. As of 2023, this couple is still married. Kwame even relocated to Seattle, and Chelsea finally met his mother.

Jackie and Marshall’s Awful Fight

From the beginning of their relationship, it was evident that Jackie was not content with how Marshall expressed his masculinity. This tension came to the forefront in episode eight, resulting in a quarrel between the two.

During the spat, Marshall accused Jackie of telling him he wasn’t “man enough” for her. Jackie retaliated by blaming him for the lack of intimacy in their relationship. As an observer, it was painful to witness the couple’s argument. It was understandable for Jackie to have her preferences. Yet, watching her criticize Marshall for simply being himself rather than the kind of man she yearned for was disheartening.

Josh Confronting Marshall

Josh made an unexpected appearance at Chelsea’s birthday bash. He seemed under the influence as he discussed their mutual affection for a particular woman with Marshall. Josh said, “Don’t let this change us,” before wandering away from a bewildered Marshall. Shortly afterward, he approached Jackie and implored her to “pick me.” It was an awkward situation, to say the least.

The whole incident was bizarre and left everyone present feeling awkward and confused. Josh’s sudden appearance and strange behavior left many with more questions than answers. The conversation between Josh and Marshall was troubling. In addition, his request to Jackie was equally strange, given their previous dynamic.